I just realized I have reached an awesome level of freedom and I am the happiest person on earth. I am sure this stunned you and you may have asked yourself if you are also there yet.
How do you know you also have reached this level? It’s simple, you get to this level when you care about what makes you happy. When nothing any one does hurts you, you look and move on. When what people think about you is not your business.
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When my all-time favorite musician released his current song, ofoo, meaning the ugly/bad person does bad things. I was the least enthused about it. Now hear me out. I waited all night to listen, after all, he hadn’t released any song in a long time so many were eager to hear it. The anticipated song finally dropped, and it was the first thing I saw on my social media feeds and group chats when I woke up.
After listening to the words in the song, I said hmmm, I am sad I will not be able to listen to this song ever again.
To my circle of people, that was surprising, so they were curious. Why? They inquired? Are you not his biggest fan anymore? Of course, I am but the fact that, I cannot relate to this music and the fact that, I sincerely don’t hate anyone that much to the level of using such words on them makes me realized, I am indeed blessed. I am grateful I have not given anyone that power over me.
In my eyes, DL can never go wrong. non-supporters of his craft even loved this song more. The song got lots of traction and he maintained and gained even more fans but as his biggest fan, I am sure I will skip this track anytime it shows or until I find someone I can hate that much which I hardly doubt it will ever happen.
I don’t begrudge anyone else who loves this music. I mean lets face it, some people are horrible and a lot of people hate you for nothing you did.
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Some too hate you for something they did wrong to you and some are bent on destroying you
Your mere existence is a constant reminder to someone that, they are a failure and so they hate you and are constantly seeking your downfall. People can be extremely hateful for no apparent reason. That is why, you need to live for yourself. Just know that, anybody’s perception about you is not your problem.
The emotional trauma and the waste of energy we spend broiling over other people’s hateful nature is an unpleasant way of life that comes at only a cost to you. That is why you do you and enjoy your life, they will stop when they get tired.
If you let someone’s bad attitude towards you provoke any unhealthy anger within you, you may spend precious times worrying over nothing.
Remember the goal is to live happy. Life has become so unpredictable to the point that, waking up must be a victory, not begging for our basic necessities is a rich act and we should give ourselves credit and leave the haters to their stress. Do not allow them live rent free in your mind.
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Constantly plotting to hurt them back is too much energy to waste. You could use that, to read an article or two on our site here, watch a movie or simply, take a walk to the park.
It’s about time we had a renewal of a mindset on defining what happiness indeed is and to me, it is not harboring any hatred for anyone. Live your life, it is yours!
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